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Love Language Minute ~ Building Relationships Radio ~ Saturday, January 22, 2011 ~ Featured Resource ~ "Secrets" ~ By Jonathan Daugherty ~ "Addiction, Infidelity, and Second Chances" ~ Jonathan and Elaine Daugherty ~ Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman ~ Hosts Gary Chapman Chris Fabry and Andrea Fabry


Jonathan and Elaine Daugherty
Founders
Be Broken Ministries


Jonathan & Elaine founded Be Broken Ministries in response to God's miraculous healing in Jonathan's life and their marriage. They have led the outreach full time since the summer of 2003. Jonathan currently serves as Director of the ministry and host of the Pure Sex Radio broadcast (http://www.puresexradio.com/). He is also Director of Gateway to Freedom, a 3-day intensive workshop for men. Jonathan serves as chairman of the board of directors, Elaine is secretary.









Love Language Minute ~ Building Relationships Radio ~ Saturday, January 22, 2011 ~ Featured Resource ~ "Secrets" By Jonathan Daugherty ~ "Addiction, Infidelity, and Second Chances" ~ Jonathan and Elaine Daugherty ~ Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman ~ Hosts Gary Chapman Chris Fabry and Andrea Fabry







Building Relationships Radio

Saturday, January 22, 2011

 "It’s a story of pain, rejection, sin, and ultimately the grace of God"



Featured Resource

"Secrets"
"A True Story of Addiction, Infidelity, and Second Chances”
by Jonathan Daugherty


"Addiction, Infidelity, and Second Chances"
Jonathan and Elaine Daugherty



"Purity"


  Building Relationships 


with


Dr. Gary Chapman  


Hosts


Gary Chapman Chris Fabry and Andrea Fabry 



 

Building Relationships Radio


"Secrets"


Saturday, January 22, 2011




“Secrets: A True Story of Addiction, Infidelity, and Second Chances”

Sexual addictions are affecting marriages at an alarming rate. On this edition of Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, Jonathan and Elaine Daugherty join us to talk about the toll that took on their marriage and the hope God can give. It’s a story of pain, rejection, sin, and ultimately the grace of God.

Featured Resource: Secrets A True Story of Addiction, Infidelity, and Second Chances by Jonathan Daugherty


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"I wish it never happened."

These are the words of Jonathan Daugherty, a man who had a secret, one that shaped his view of life and relationships for thirteen years. Secrets is his story of overcoming addiction, infidelity, and finally finding the path that led him to a place of true peace and freedom.
In this powerful and personal book, Jonathan reveals:
  • The nature and danger of secrets
  • The consequences of emotional detachment
  • Insights for dealing with addiction, death, brokenness, and healing
  • The secret to living a life of peace and joy
Secrets is a true story of one man's journey through brokenness and despair that will captivate you, encourage you, and ultimately motivate you to live your own life to the fullest. Whether you are living a double life of secrecy and lies or not, Secrets will move you to reconsider how you live your life from this moment on, challenging you to live each day with no more regrets.


Jonathan's Story

Jonathan's story as he shares of his shame, brokenness, and ultimate surrender of his addiction. Find encouragement and hope through his story and the unrelenting faithfulness of God.

In August 1999 I sat by myself on my living room couch. Alone. Scared. I tried to piece together what 13 years of sexual addiction had just torn apart. My life was unraveling and I couldn’t harness my out of control behaviors. I remember thinking I might be better off dead than alive. As I sat there I had a lot to consider.

I decided internally, “Sex is as close as I can ever come to true intimacy.”

I was a sex addict. Due to a mixture of missing certain emotional elements as a child, and developing my own misconceptions about relationships and myself, I learned to turn to sex and pleasure to feed my starving soul. In the process I denied myself the opportunity to ever become intimate on an emotional level with anyone, women or men. I decided internally, “Sex is as close as I can ever come to true intimacy.” What I failed to realize was such a belief about relationships only led to more loneliness, shame, and pain.

I had been married over three years when I found myself alone on my couch. As I sat there I doubted if God really did love me or even care at all. I feared that He would never accept me again after the terrible things I had done. Pornography, strip clubs, prostitution, Internet porn, and many other horrible activities had become my way of life. Ultimately, I was unfaithful to my wife, to myself, and to God. I was alone. At least, I thought I was alone...Cont.


Elaine's Story

Elaine's amazing story of faith, grace, forgiveness, and love. See the heart of God expressed in ways that are truly remarkable.

Once upon a time there was a little girl that believed in happy ever after…

That little girl was me. Jonathan and I got married in the winter of 1995. It felt like the beginning of a fairy tale, and of course every girl dreams of "happy every after" following her wedding day. Boy, was I in for some surprises. What I did not know at the time was what the Lord would use to teach us, or that we would see more wicked witches, gremlins, and places like hell than we would first see of "happy ever after."
One evening after we had been married several months, Jonathan came to me with something in his hand. He was ashamed and downcast. He held a department store magazine out in his hand and he told me that he had looked at the pictures of the women and masturbated. It was not a Playboy or anything that graphic; it was just a department store magazine with some scantly clad women in it. I really felt hurt. I looked at the women and thought that they were much skinnier than I was, much prettier… I thought I had not met his needs as a new bride and that is what sent him to imagine things with other women.

I had no clue how serious a problem it was or how deeply involved he was.

That was my first exposure that Jonathan had a problem with pornography, but I was young and so na├»ve. I had no clue how serious a problem it was or how deeply involved he was. I told myself that he was so godly to have confessed his sins on his own without being caught. I thought of what worse magazines he could have looked at and was glad that things were not as bad as they could have been. When he asked my forgiveness that day, I gave it and easily washed the smudge of dirt from my knight’s armor. I secretly determined to lose some weight and be more available to him sexually.
The issue of pornography did not surface again for a while, yet our marriage was going through a rough time and, looking back, porn was the driving force. I thought things were normal even though my heart longed for more.

Finances became a huge area of strife at that time....Cont.


Jonathan's Bio

Jonathan Daugherty spent 13 years trapped in sexual addiction. His world eventually crumbled in 1999, at which time God began to radically transform his life. He is the founder and director of Be Broken Ministries, and founder of Gateway to Freedom workshop for men. Jonathan also hosts the weekly radio broadcast, Pure Sex Radio, and is in demand nationally as a speaker on sexual purity and men’s issues.

Jonathan lives with his wife and three children in San Antonio, Texas.


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